Sometimes it can be difficult to tell if somebody is into you, interested in you likes you, has a crush on you etc, there are so many mixed signals out there and so many people that just like to flirt there's no wonder why it's easy to get confused.

One of the first steps that can help you in determining if somebody is into you is how often you see them and under what circumstances. Look for signs that they have gone out of their way to "bump into you" if they know you are going to be somewhere today just happened to always show up. When you do happen to be at the same place, do they make an effort to say hello as soon as they see you? If so, this can be a great sign that somebody is into you or has a crush on you.

Another great tool in determining if somebody is into you is to listen to see if they keep mentioning their future plans. This rings especially true for women, if a guy keeps saying things like "hey I may try this new restaurant this weekend" or "I'm going to a baseball game", these can easily be signs that he's looking for a way to ask you if you would like to join him.

Speaking of speaking, when you do have conversations with your suspect do they seem to always make efforts to keep the conversation going? Do they seem extremely interested in your life, the things you are interested in and your future plans? If they are there is a good chance that they have feelings for you.

Does your suspect easily cancel plans if the opportunity to spend time with you comes up? Yet another great way you can tell if somebody is into.

As for body language, if you are looking to tell if somebody is into you, look for signs like them touching you on your shoulder, blushing, constant smiling or running their hands through their hair. Sometimes people that have a crush on someone else tend to unconsciously mirror their physical actions or facial expressions. And last but not least there is the old telltale body positioning signs if their legs are crossed toward you this is a good sign.

Sometimes it just takes time to tell if somebody is into you or not but if you look for the right signs you may be able to find out sooner than later.

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