Whether it is a scene in a night club or whether the ‘Player’ is already involved in a sex life with someone, there are many things which he will come across where he will feel it would have been better if he had avoided such places. Even though a person who wants to be deemed as a complete ladies’ man is very adjusting and adapting to various situations, some dilemma aren’t worth the effort.

Such situations arrive in which a person is in a position he can’t control, but a Player has to remember that he has his reputation at stake. He takes pride in being a person with no enemies whatsoever. Thus, some situations which you can avoid in order to keep your stress level lower are:

1. Meeting her female friends
   

   After a point of time in your relation, she would urge you to meet her friends. When you’re just at a flirting part initially, sitting at the club, it is a good idea so say a yes and meet her friends, so that you get friendly and they approve. But once you’re in a complete relation, ‘going out’ with those girls is not a good idea. Her friends will most probably try to hook up, and if you get too friendly with them without hooking up, your girl might want you to meet her parents next, which we suppose is totally out of question.

    

2. Weekend holidays
   

   You most likely wouldn’t want to convert your no-strings-attached and enjoyable relationship into a big commitment worry for you, so always remember that even though a weekend vacation may sound very appealing to you, since you both will be alone for 24X7 and you will get to enjoy, such outings are filled with questions regarding ingratiation. Also, by the time you go for such vacations and you’re back, the girl is bound to ask for clarifying your exact role in the relation and redefine the bond which you share. If you’re early in a relation, don’t get into such weekend getaways where you think you will enjoy with her and it will all be over once you are back. Instead of thinking small term profits, think for the long term loss.

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