There are some signs which normally suggest that the girl is settling for you, or is ready to settle for you.

We present to you a list of 4 points.

1. You both have discussions based on logic, not on passion.
   Imagine this scenario. You both seem to be lacking a bit of emotion, or rather, there seems to be a distance between you two as far as emotions are concerned. You do enjoy being with each other, sharing each other’s company but it generally lacks passion and is most of the times logical or formal. If your partner is actually looking for some companion who doesn’t care much about the love factor, more chances are that you will share a very civilized relation but the spark which is present in a loving relation will be missing. If you don’t experience emotional peaks, just remember that she might be craving for a diamond ring and maybe cute off springs to show to the world.
2. Your relation is based on routine life
   You call it a spontaneous love if it cares about no time nor any routine. Saying a few lines at the spur of the moment, giving her gifts unexpectedly, romantic outings, unplanned midnight swims in clubs or your personal pool etc. are the things people in love generally do. They bask away in the glory and the spur of the moment and are really happy to be wrapped in the layers of thing which they feel is true romance. But if your partner doesn’t seem to be much bothered about such unexpected gifts or surprises, then probably routine is the foundation of your relationship. You should remember that this happens only when she wants to wed you.
3. You don’t spend much time in each other’s company, yet she talks about marriage
   People in worthy relations actually look forward to spend time together and in fact, couples who get really close would want to spend each minute they get together. If you’re in the middle of such a phase where you both spend more time alone than you do together, and if she doesn’t mind that, then it is probably a phase where she’s trying to adjust to a situation which might be post marriage such as when you go to work and when she will have to deal with parenthood.

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